What to do after the successful first date: when should I call/email or ask her on another?

Our first date. we spent all evening together: dinner, dance, coffee. The evening ended when I dropped her off-she came around my car and gave me a hug, saying she had enjoyed herself. I want to continue the relationship and go out again. I'm not sure about when to call or email her, what to say, and how much or quickly I should pursue her? What should I make of the hug she initiated? I'm new at this dating thing-though I'm a college upperclassman.

What to do after the successful first date: when should I call/email or ask her on another?
call her, don't email. email is too impersonal.
Reply:I say why wait! If you both enjoyed each other's company than there is nothing wrong with calling and saying just that. Most women dont really care for the games so if you call and just say that you want to see how she felt about the date and what exactly is she looking for than it puts everything out in the open as to what each of you want and expect. God Bless!!!
Reply:call her and ask her out again. don;t wait to long as she may think your playing games with her.
Reply:well movies will say that a person has tooo wait 2 days after the first date to calll cause u dont want to sound desperate, but if she likes u waiting will be excruciating
Reply:well if shes hott then email/call her if u want her that bad
Reply:Give it a few days, maybe 3-4 and then try to contact her again. This shows that you do have a life, apart from thinking about her, and if she rings you first, well this shows that she wants to be apart of your life.


Calling her would be the best way to go, and when you do plan something, give it at lease 4days notice, this indicates that you're thoughtful about time management and that you don't need her right here, right now.


For a girl, Saying yes to a guy who's asked them out, is already a 80% guaranty that this could be a relationship.
Reply:Take some time. Don't call her for about two-three days. Call her mid-week and don't ask her out this time. Simply tell her where you plan to be going to have some fun. This time, keep it simple, fun-filled and enjoyable. Some adventure trip perhaps to some nearby hills would be an ideal one, although it really depends on your energy levels and spirit.





Remember that you are not asking her to join or come along with you. You are only proposing the idea right now. Look for a reaction. Remember that you are the master of the game and you are looking for a life-partner. Not just this girl. She may be great, but you just need to know if she will be a fit.





If she sounds bored or uninterested, you are not going to enjoy her company later on in life, even if you end up in a relationship with her. Rethink your options and consider why you want her.





If on the contrary, she sounds excited and asks you who you are planning to go with, tell her that the idea is not yet finalized and will depend on the consent of a lot of your friends. Then simply add a small sentence telling her that if she wishes to join, you will tell all your friends to let you guys some private time! :) That is a hint to her and if she likes the cue, she would respond very positively. If she thinks the cue has come along too early, she might tell you that she can join sometime later.





If the idea of going out on a long drive does not excite her already, she may not be a long-drives person. Consider such factors as her possible idea of fun. It is up to you to decide. Remember that you want a person whom you can have fun with. Not one whose idea of fun fits you! You don't have to know what she likes to do. Do what you want to and see if she likes it.





About your other questions. Don't pursue her at all. Let her pursue you. There is a rule which says that if you run after something too much, it will run away from you. Understand that this is the time when you are creating a comfortable sexual tension. You have to make her feel comfortable in your presence.





The hug she initiated says just that: "I enjoyed myself!" It doesn't mean much right now. Even if it does, don't begin thinking on it. The day you get to know what it actually means you can react appropriately. Clearly however, the girl enjoyed your company and felt pampered. The best she could do to express her thanks was to hug you once. Don't jump to conclude that she loves you.





Remember that people don't love each other till they reach a station in their relationship, where the person matters more. Till that point, they love only the feeling they get when they are around that person or are thinking of that person.





Allow her enough time to think of you. Women think lots of great things about men they enjoyed with, when these men are not around. If she likes you, she would actually be expecting your call and would perhaps be waiting beside it. It might puzzle her as to what is keeping you busy.





If she calls up, tell her you would call her back in some while, that you are busy and hang up. The idea is to make her feel that she has to win you and not the other way around.





And oh! if she doesn't pick your call when you call once, leave a message saying that you wanted to check out how she was doing. Say nothing else and hang up.





If you receive a text message from her, don't reply. Resist yourself for a while. You will love what follows.