Should i email my first love who movedd? He took my virgingity?!?

I was in love with this guy, he loved me back but he alwyas knew he was moving. I lost my virginity to him. We were like....in love...but we couldnt show it because he was extrremely scared. He wasnt with other girls or anything, we were best friends. Now before he left i tried to get him to admit his feelings and he started to like get really anxious and avoided me. then he admitted it, indirectly, then i asked him to just say it and he was like blahhhhhh theres nothing to say im moving whats the point. His pride never let him do it!!!





But its unfair to me cause i lost my virginity to him!! Anyway hes been gone for 9 months he moved to new york, and i am finally over him and finally want answers, should i email him?





My email would be asking why he has ignored me the past 9 months, why he talkes to everyone i kno but hasnt called me once, and if he ever really did love me.

Should i email my first love who movedd? He took my virgingity?!?
Maybe I can help you. My first love, ended cause I had to move. He never said he loved me, until 23 years too late.


He wanted me to know that he loved me. well he was in Iraq, at that time. I do not think he would have ever told me. Yes I did need to hear him say he loved me.But that is the past and you can`t go back. I would send a note,saying that you want him to know you. That you loved being with him, and you will always care for him no matter what. by the way life is too short not be happy. take care.
Reply:i would say go for it
Reply:If you are really over him then why are you still looking for answers? Do you care why he ignored you for the past 9 months? It's not really going to make a difference because no matter why he did it it does not change the fact that he did. Sounds like you have the virgin cling. I would cut my ties and try to move on if he calls then so be it. But I would go with the good old if its meant to be it will be for this one. Good luck though!
Reply:Get over it! He used you and NO he has no feelings for you. Its life..people get used. Move on. Also your not going to get the answers your looking for AND since your not over him it will only hurt more.
Reply:You need to get over him. You didn't lose your virginity to him - you made the choice.........unless he forced himself upon you which would be statutory rape.





What is he going to say? You are missing the guy you thought he was. He isn't contacting you or talking to you because he knows you will try to corner him. He probably doesn't have any answers for you........move on with your life, learn from this experience.
Reply:I'm sure he did love you, but he doesn't anymore. Why bring up all this pain of trying to contact him if you know he's going to be less than cooperative?
Reply:I would start more casual. "Hey, how's it going. I miss you." etc. once the lines of communication are open he's more likely to confide in you.
Reply:Perhaps he didn't love you as much as you think he did. With a guy, actions speak much louder than words. So, his unwilling to tell you he loves you and his unwillingness to email you speaks volumes.