Monday, May 24, 2010

Who should contact who first if he gave the woman his email?

And if one wrote and one wrote back, does that mean it is your turn to write back? Would the man think that or would it matter?

Who should contact who first if he gave the woman his email?
I don't think either way matters. What is important is that he gave it to you.
Reply:don't over analize this. It doesn't matter. What really matters is what you say in those emails. chill
Reply:It's the woman's turn...if he's worth it!!!
Reply:the Women should contact him first
Reply:Yes, its like playing tag at first, sending notes back and forth.
Reply:the woman writes back. pretty simple. he gives e-mail, she e-mails him!
Reply:I don't even think women should be allowed to use email on the internets.
Reply:it doesnt matter at all


dont let your ego become an obstacle in your communication..its nothing to do being a male or female when you are communicating.just ask again if the other person is ok?? as you dint get any replies from him /her
Reply:haha , it is your turn cos you are asking the question about it , so write back , it's your turn
Reply:just write him--these rules of dating are silly. if you like him, write him.
Reply:I would seek clarity on the matter!
Reply:matter is that u communicate it doen't matter who wrote first
Reply:Well, if a guy gives his email to the girl, the girl is supposed to write first (mostly for the obvious reason that he probably doesn't have your email). But if it was an even exchange aka you gave him your email and he gave you his then it doesn't matter who writes whom first.





Now, the general rule is that if one wrote the other, the other must respond. If he doesn't it's probably because he lost interest...now, if you were the last one to write and he doesn't respond, you can wait up to a week and if there is still no response, you can drop him a line asking what's going on and that he should tell you if he doesn't want to email you anymore.





Now, if he doesn't respond to that, then just forget about the whole thing. If he does though and says that he still wants to exchange emails then you just have to accept the idea that his emails are going to be irregular and you are probably gonna have to be the initiator a lot of times.





And YES, guys are aware of the afore-mentioned "general rule" of emai exchange!
Reply:usually the man should write first. i shows alot when a guys rights first.


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